14 May, 2013  |   2 Comments

Gifting issues.

This post sponsored by Frigidaire.

Re-entry from our trip to the Big Traveling Potluck, Mickey’s house and Mom 2.0 has required a more intensive re-entry process than I was prepared for. Work! Kids! Bocce! Work! Work!

Speaking of, did you see my Biscuit Brunch and Mimosa Bar video that I did with the Wine Sisterhood? (It was exactly like being on a cooking show and I loved every minute of it.)

But a week out of making wine videos and being out of the office meant I needed to take care of the secondary items that were ignored. Cards, gifts, acknowledgements, bills, appointments, plans, all of it waiting patiently in a ditch.

None more than gifts.
They’re always last on my list

Except this one time when I bought James a cello

I’ve talked about love languages before, and the one I least understand is gifting. I am profoundly uncomfortable accepting gifts, purchasing gifts and watching people open gifts. There’s something about gifting that I’m not good at.

Gifting gives me a bunch of anxiety.
But I’m working on it.
And I’m starting with Auntie T.

Auntie T. got married in October. We’re super happy for her!
It’s a brave decision
when you decide
who you are and
who you love and make the leap.

And we owe her a gift to commemorate.
And I put it off.
Until I remembered what makes Auntie T unique. She loves New Orleans, she’s not fancy, she takes after her dad. So I put together a gift package right for her. Not for anyone else, but her. We love you T.

1-abita 2-superhero
3-toaster 4-cruise
5-beneigh 6-besh

1. Abita Strawberry Beer. This Louisiana brew only comes out once a year. Now how to smuggle to Arizona?
2. A Superhero Mask. The groomsfolk all wore them, and the brides are superheros.
3. Frigidaire Convection Oven. Make a late night French Bread pizza. Just like in the French Quarter. Or some Bread Pudding. Whatever.
4. Interview with the Vampire: The Vampire Chronicles. Because it’s so much.
5. My New Orleans: The Cookbook. Let me tell you about the time Chef Besh served us cocktails and made me his assistant.
6. Beignet mix from Cafe du Monde. Perfect for Sunday morning experiments.

We packed it up with feather boas and love, and a whole lot of happy vibes for the new couple. Hooray for love and french bread pizzas or bread pudding.

13 May, 2013  |   Comment

Those that can’t do, strategize?

Meat Raffle

I have so many feelings about sponsored posts.
And that’s a good thing, because it’s my day job.
(I wouldn’t want someone who isn’t skeptical in the job.)

My day job is setting up bloggers and brands with sponsored posts. My favorite kinds of posts are the underwritten posts, the ones where a theme is selected, the publisher gets a chance to write about something they would otherwise write about and the brand gets to politely join an online conversation. But most of the time there’s a product involved. And it requires description.

At Mom 2.0, I was on a panel with Whoorl, Heather Spohr and Kristen Howerton, talking about better sponsored posts. Since I don’t do sponsored posts much, it was all about my day job.

From our panel on sponsored posts -- this was from Sarah James

But for the next week, I’m doing a test. I’m going to try my hand at interesting, valuable sponsored posts. Because you come here for the dip recipes and internet thoughts. And I want to see if anyone can do it — and which traits of mine might or might not be suited for it. I’d like to squash the voice in my head that says, “Those who can’t do, get into content strategy…” and see if I could try.

From our panel on sponsored posts -- this was from Kristen Howerton

If sponsored stuff isn’t your gig, I encourage you to check back next Monday, when I’ll be back with more Billy Ocean posts.

Thanks for joining in my experiment.

From our panel on sponsored posts -- this was from Heather Spohr

28 November, 2012  |   6 Comments

Working from home, a tip or three

My Monday’s are superduperdays, I’ll give them that.

But for a good chunk of the rest of the week, I work from home. This allows a less intense schedule. Inspired by Pamie’s most recent Weekly Procrastination post, I thought I’d throw my tips on the pile.

Pinot says PLEASE WALK ME.

My morning starts the rest of the week at 5:00 am when I walk the dog.
Being a morning person stunk in college, but I’m okay with it now.

My coffee is 2/3 decaffeinated and 1/3 caffeinated.
(This way I can have more than one cup before inappropriate outbursts.)

I exercise, make the coffee, quickly scan work email for emergencies and make breakfasts for the toddlers. If there’s time, I do morning pages. We get dressed, I take the girls to school and we laugh and yell the whole way through.

When I’m back at the house alone, I eat breakfast (it helps!) and make my daily list.

a Helen Jane work from home tip
Make a list first
My lists are super granular. I break everything down into 30 minute or less chunks of activity. I do it before getting into my email (besides my emergency scan). I list all the tasks to do before nine pm. I don’t let my list cover more than 2/3 of the page so there’s room for the inevitable tasks that pop up.

Every day, I’m surprised when my husband comes home, even though it’s been this way for 3 years. Gah. After realizing I’ve been hunched over the phone or the laptop for five hours straight and my neck probably hurt and my leg was asleep, I installed a stretch timer.

Thus the next tip…

a Helen Jane work from home tip
Set up a Stretch Timer on your phone or your computer 
Bodies weren’t made for all this laptop hunching.
We’re at home! let’s take advantage of our privacy and get a little weird! Let’s swing these meat sack appendages around every 30 minutes or so, it feels good. I use the Stretch Timer widget and/or the timer on my phone.

By 4:30 pm, The pacing outside my office space has worn yet another hole in the carpet. All my people need something. So I take a break and start supper in earnest. When the food goes in the oven, or the food is simmering, I head back upstairs for a work check-in.

a Helen Jane work from home tip
Take advantage of supper
You can make amazing suppers, just by popping in at various parts of the preparation process. Take tiny breaks to chill doughs, whip up desserts and use your food processor in a calm, measured and uncrowded kitchen. Some steps can take only a few minutes — use that stretch timer to your advantage.

By 5:30 pm, supper is on the table. We say what we’re “thank you” for and we eat together.  I love this part of the day.

Lamb Kebabs

Before bed, the girls dance and run and sometimes play Candyland and sometimes play dress-up and sometimes play with blocks and sometimes play babies and sometimes make a Hot Wheels track and sometimes fight and cry.

Just like you and me.

Usually it looks like this:

Then we bathe and pajama and read and tuck.

At 8:00, I check once more into work, as well as my side projects and writing projects and all the little things that seemed fun at the time. This includes working on my presentations, illustrations and party preparations.

By 9:30, I finish up my prep for tomorrow. Depending on where I’ll be, you could find me getting notes, clothing, packing, tomorrow’s dinner and bus fare ready for another day.

a Helen Jane work from home tip

30 minutes tonight is worth an hour in the morning
That last half hour of the day can make or break your next day. Put out as much as you can for tomorrow. I put out my makeup and hair-doing supplies, my clothing, dog walking doodads (leash, bags, coat), the coffee, the girls’ lunches, everything I can.

Hope some of these scheduling tips help you pack a wee bit more into your day.

26 November, 2012  |   13 Comments

Day in the life: Monday

In the spirit of Nablopomo, a typical Monday.

Good morning.I do it the night before.
That’s how I do it.

I:
Write little notes for my little girls.
Put out my clothes for work and put out my dog-walking clothes, the dog’s leash and bags.
Set up the coffee.
Set out my makeup (every minute in the morning counts!).
Set up the exercise video.
Put out my work bag, fully packed.
Pack my breakfast and lunch and the girls’ lunches.
Drop a dinner in the slow cooker, drop the slow cooker insert in the fridge.

4:00 am
Up and at ‘em. I roll out of bed, do a quick exercise video, turn on the water to boil and leave the house for Pinot and I to take our daily 45 minute walk.

pinot

5:00 am
Pour the coffee through the coffee dripper.
While I’m waiting for the coffee, I stretch.
While I’m stretching, I say something positive.

“Today’s going to be chock full of adventure.”
“I am kind and hopeful.”
“My life is filled with love.”
(Sounds weird, but it works for me.)

Then I take a shower and
get dressed and
put on my makeup and
do my hair and
the older I get,
the more time it takes.

5:27 am
Pop downstairs, write a quick note for James’ and put it next to the coffee. I try to set up coffee for him, because he’s coming out right behind me with two grumpy toddlers in tow.

5:30 am
Hop out the door and
walk to the bus stop and
take the bus to the ferry.

My tummy doesn’t handle typing on the bus very well, so it’s all closed eyes, organizing thoughts and TTBook.org.

Commute

7:00 am
Ride the ferry to San Francisco.
I love the ferry.

On the ferry, I check into work and answer personal emails. My work team is mostly in New York, and since I’m a morning person, it’s a win.

Commute.

8:00 am
Walk through the ferry building to the office.
I get to walk down San Francisco’s Embarcadero, and it’s beautiful.

Squinting chilly Bay smells.
Rocket ship and cupid’s arrow.

Commute

8:30 am
Arrive at work.
My job is fascinating — even more so now that things have become evolvey — will personal storytelling still win out?

I’m here to try to make that happen.
I hope it will.

Commuting.4:00 pm
Walk to the ferry building, hop on the ferry, the bus and my way home.

7:15 pm
Walk in the door, hear the sounds of toddler splashing and a tired James.
Put the pajamas on the littles, pile on the bed for three stories, hugs and kisses and a few more trips for waters and potties.

Reading time

8:30 pm
One more online check and then it’s time to get ready for Tuesday.
Tuesday is one of my favorites.

This is how I do it, 2-3 days a week.
How do you do it?
Do you do it?

21 November, 2012  |   Comment

Great Smelling Play Dough

Make your own great-smelling play dough.

Found this recipe for a great smelling play dough on the site Ebb and Flow, and it’s a goodie.

Make your own great-smelling play dough.

Ingredients
2 cups water
2 tablespoons vegetable oil
2 cups flour
1 cup salt
2 tablespoons cream of tartar
2 tablespoons pumpkin pie spice
Gell food coloring

Directions
Mix the water and vegetable oil in a medium saucepan over low heat.
Add the flour, salt, cream of tartar and pumpkin pie spice.

Stir vigorously until it comes together — you’re going to have to put your back into it.

Then separate the dough into as many colors as you want to make.
Knead the gel color into the dough until it’s the right color for you.

Make your own great-smelling play dough.

Make this dough first thing on Thanksgiving morning, before starting the cooking. This means the girls can have something to knead, pound and stir while I knead, pound and stir.

Make your own great-smelling play dough.

If you can spare the oven time, bake the shapes in the oven at 250° for 1 hour.

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